Thursday, April 5, 2012

how do you keep your cool

You know girls. No, that’s a weak refutation. Well, I always admire people who could stand still, poise and calm amidst of disorder or whatever that is. There are people who could actually just do that. I can’t. And I know I have to work on it. Harder I guess.

I get angry right away and the problem with that is, I cant keep my mouth shut. Maya was kind enough to share me a mantra to always recite to myself before I let go of a word whenever I feel angry about someone or something; “Wisdom is knowing when to speak your mind and when to mind your speech.” It does actually help me. Quite a lot!

I learned that whenever you keep silent, you are making people think; sometimes crazy coz they will never know what’s goin on your mind. You could create a million thoughts and questions to their minds just by doing absolutely nothing. The perks? You are not hurting yourself nor anyone.

You have to stop caring less as well so that you can keep your cool. If you do that, their opinions wont matter anymore. Why not let go of being so busy about what people might think of you and just start doing what you really love. You gotta show the world who and what you are and this is a favor you’re doing for yourself and not for others.

There are lapses and instances in life that I can’t help but just blow up but I’ll do my best in any way that I can to just keep cool, as long as I can hold it. J

I wanna be a better person each day.